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Julia Dent GrantJulia Boggs Dent was born near St. Louis on January 26, 1826. Her family had slaves. She met Ulysses Grant when he was an army lieutenant in 1844. Her father, Colonel Dent thought Grant was too poor to marry Julia. They were married after a four year engagement on August 22, 1848.
The Grants (Grant's family) did not attend the wedding. Julia and Ulysses lived at numerous military camps in the early years. She supported him in his early troubles. He resigned from the army due to alcohol. He tried selling real estate and also tried farming. Grant was only an average student at West Point. They had four children. He gained his popularity as a general in the Civil War. In 1868, Grant, a Civil War, hero was elected President Julia Grant was cross-eyed. This made her look odd in photographs. Julia's father and Ulysses's fathers did not get along. They sometimes refused to talk to each other and would only talk through Julia. Mrs. Grant enjoyed entertaining and threw lavish parties. Her daughter Nellie was married in the White House. Julia loved living in the White Hours. She said it was "Eight happy years I spent there-- so happy! "It still seems as much like home to me as the old farm in Missoui, White Haven." Julia was the first First Lady to be followed by the press. More women became journalist and they columns attracted female readers. One cabinet member commented on Julia: "She is intelligent, lady-like and particularly pleased me by speaking of her husband as Mr. Grant. In May of 1874, 18 year old Nellie Grant married a young man from Britain. This was the first wedding at the White House since Tyler's daughter was married 22 years before this wedding. The news covered all the details of the wedding. Julia had a mind of her home. Grant had sold a house in Washington and didn't tell her. She refused to sign the deed and Grant had to cancel the sale. The next time he checked with her before making a deal. She wanted her husband to run for a third term as President. Grant refused. After he was President they went for a trip around the world. They traveled for 28 months and were warmly greeted around the world. In 1884, Grant lost his money in a bad investment and also learned he had throat cancer. Ulysses died in 1885. Julia continued to live in Washington on the money from Grant's autobiography. She also wrote her memoirs. She was the first First Lady to write her autobiography. In her book she explained how Grant was taken in by some business men and had nothing to do with anything illegal. A journalist called Julia Grant "the first lady of the land." One of the first documented accuracies that term in a newspaper. She is buried with her husband in New York City.
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